Alex

Alex is my fourth bridesmaid. Alex is Ali's sister, but in many ways, has also been my sister (and equally a great friend) for the last 9 years. I must thank Alex for being ever so welcoming, allowing me to come into her family and be apart of it. You hear of horrible stories about how unpleasant sister-in-laws can be.... but not this one! She has always been so nice to me, provided a huge shoulder for me to lay on in the wee hours of the morning when I have been drunk and emotional, and has rocked at making me feel as though I belong to the Gow-Smith's brood! She also buys me the best presents when it is my birthday and at Christmas.

Alex is very unique and individual character. There is something immensely intriguing about her, making you want to know more about what makes her tick. I have done some digging and have found out this this beautiful lady has a bloody strong head on her tiny shoulders, and is quite the determinist that I am (we share the same star signs, Scorpio). She does not give up and fights for what she believes in. She will stick up for you in any situation, but is confident enough to put you back on the straight and narrow if need be. She offers excellent advice and is full of encouragement when you are in a period of self doubt. She speaks a lot of truth, and will let others hear it. She also has this massively sensitive side, which may not always be so apparent (again, I think we share a lot of similarities). She will cuddle you, listen to you, offer advice, and remind you of the things that matter in life. Alex is full of life and should most probably work for Time Out as she is always going to the next cool thing in London. When I first met her I was shocked at how much energy this petite girl had... her diary was rammer jammer with events happening in London. Above all, she is the most amazing sister to her brother Ali. He is very lucky to have her. She is his friend and his support system, and in recent years this has proved vital.

 Alex and I have shared some great times. We have also had some of the most deep and meaningful conversations I have ever had with anyone. It amazes me that we can be so close. We have had some good dancing (again, she is a lover of the beat and dancefloor) too, and been on some fantastic adventures! Could you get any better than traveling to the Galapagos and seeing lonesome George!

I am looking forward to Alex's honesty and her 'get up and go' attitude during the next year and a half. I am certain she will also ensure a quality action packed hen do and cake filled luncheon. Her presence as a bridesmaid will mean the world to Ali and I on the day, Not forgetting her parents, Nigel and Nancy, who I am sure will feel like the proudest mum and dad ever when they see their son and daughter on the day of our wedding.